libutil: Add a helper for O_TMPFILE + mmap()

libutil: Add a helper for O_TMPFILE + mmap()

I added `glnx_open_anonymous_tmpfile()`, but then later noticed
that the usage of this was really to be combined with `mmap()`,
and we had two versions of that in the delta code.  Add a helper.

(Bigger picture...how is this different from glibc's "mmap() of /dev/zero"
 approach for large chunks? One advantage is the storage can be "swapped" to
 `/var/tmp`, but still deleted automatically, rather than requiring swap space)

Closes: #973
Approved by: jlebon